Whether you're brand new to open relationships, or are already navigating your own poly constellation, the world of non-monogamy can feel overwhelming. In this sermon I share some of my own experiences - from group sex to polyamory - with the hope that you can learn from some of my triumphs and mistakes! I’ll also break down different ways to explore non-monogamy, give insight into improving communication (with yourself and others), and provide you with the tools to process jealousy in healthy ways.

Threesomes are the most common sexual fantasy, yet many of us feel nervous about turning it into a reality. Luckily, I’m here to help! We'll explore how to find like-minded people and initiate threesomes, managing power dynamics and expectations, and exercising pleasure-focussed consent. I’ll also provide practical tips for group sex (more bodies = more sexy logistics) and how to provide and receive aftercare. My hope is that this sermon will spark your imagination and inspire you to turn your threesome fantasies into a reality.

There’s more bi visibility than ever, but with that comes a whole host of pressures and expectations. From exploring new types of dating and sex, to the internal struggle of not feeling ‘queer enough’, to tackling common misconceptions (no, you don’t have to ‘pick a side’’!): there’s a lot to wade through... But don’t panic! As an out and proud bisexual big sister, let me scoop you up in a blanket of reassurance to help you feel more confident in all aspects of your sexuality.

The slut has shaped our ideals of womanhood and sexuality for centuries, from off-with-her-head-ing, to media assassination and cancel culture, to the non-consequential normalisation of sexual violence. But where does the concept of the slut come from? Can it be reclaimed as a force for good? And how has our relationship with being sluts changed post-lockdown? As a semi-professional slut I’m here to reveal all, in an evening that’ll spark your imagination, question, and celebrate the slut within us all.