AUTHOR, Educator, PresenteR

Ruby is an award-winning sex and relationships expert with a decade's experience redefining intimacy. Accredited through ACET UK, Intimacy Expert for Feeld, and ambassador for sexual health charity Brook, she brings serious credentials to seriously underexplored territory. She is currently training as an Intimacy Coordinator with the IPA.

A dual-heritage, queer, non-monogamous educator, Ruby goes where many practitioners won't. Her work centres the paths less trodden, and the conversations many are still too afraid to have. Driven by a deep belief that shame is the real barrier to connection, she creates spaces to learn, celebrate, and feel more at home in your body: through content creation, books, live events, and everything in between.

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Feeld Intimacy Expert

As Feeld's Intimacy Expert, Ruby brings her unique voice to a new audience. She co-authored their 2025 State of Dating Report, exploring relationship anarchy as an antidote to loneliness.
Ladyfister Zine

Ruby’s first venture into the world of DIY publishing is a mix of personal writing, visual art, community stories, and queer history. Ladyfister invites you to glide hole-heartedly into a world of shared knowledge and pleasure.
The Non-Monogamy Playbook

Ruby's second book, published by Ebury, is a modern guide to love and intimacy beyond conventional monogamy. Curious, encouraging, and rooted in kindness, community, and her own lived experience.
Brook

As a Brook ambassador since 2020, Ruby has delivered talks, live events, and volunteer mentoring for the UK's leading sexual health charity: bringing her trademark candour and expertise to a new generation.
The Ins & Outs Podcast

Ruby co-hosted this unfiltered, playful, and inclusive podcast alongside Megan Barton-Hanson, unpicking the big questions about sex and dating, and sharing a few unforgettable stories along the way. A Mags and Dear Media production.
Sex Rated

Alongside Rylan, I’m the resident sexpert on Sex Rated, giving tips, tricks, and reassurance to open-minded participants who are in for the biggest relationship debrief of their lives. Produced by Mighty Productions for E4.
Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults

In 2020 my debut book Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults was published by Bloomsbury and illustrated by the incredible Sofie Birkin - a kind, inclusive guide to everything you need to know about sex and pleasure.
tv & film

From voicing a polyamorous mouse in an award-winning short film, to providing inclusive advice on sexual health and all things pleasure as an on screen expert and script consultant.
In Touch Docu-Series

In Touch was released in 2022, produced by Bea Duncan at Broccoli Productions. The docu-series intimately explores the ways we connect to sex, relationships, and our bodies with nuance and curiosity.
Sexy Sermons

Working in collaboration with The Hale Arts, this series of online and live events brings sex nerds together for a silly, educational time. Topics include non-monogamy, bisexual big sister advice, and what it means to be a slut.