I’ve worked in the sex and relationships world for a decade. I am deeply passionate about educating people of all ages about sex, relationships, and our bodies. We hold so much shame about these parts of our lives, and everything I do in my career comes back to helping others to shake off this inherited shame through knowledge, empowerment and celebration. 

I earned my sexual health stripes at Brook, the UK’s leading sexual health charity, where I taught relationships and sex education (RSE) in schools across the country, and managed a condom distribution scheme across five London boroughs. Fun fact, we used to give out 200,000 condoms a year: they didn’t call me the condom queen for nothing! And in 2019, I was the Project Manager for Let’s Talk. Period: a national period equity campaign. After five years working at the organisation, I left to focus on my solo ventures. I’m honoured to be one of Brook’s ambassadors, and to continue championing their brilliant work.

I didn’t intentionally set out to ‘build a brand’, but in 2019 began documenting my work on Instagram, and followers resonated with my flavour of sexy enthusiasm and inclusive education.

I’ve written two books: Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults (2020), and The Non-Monogamy Playbook (2025), hosted E4’s Sex Rated, and am the co-host of The Ins and Outs podcast alongside Megan Barton-Hanson. You can find out more about all my projects here. 

When I’m not in full sex-nerd mode, you can find me seaside swimming, collecting Polly Pockets, and cooking endless Sri Lankan curries. Oh, and I really love jelly.

Accolades (she fancy)

  • Winner of the 2023 Pride Ambassador of the Year at the Superdrug Star Awards, and 2023 bCreator Sex and Relationships Creator of the Year.

  • Accredited Relationships and Sex Educator through Acet UK.

  • Ambassador for Brook and the National LGBT+ Partnership’s Women's Health Week.

  • Listed as one of 24 figures making a positive change to social media in Cosmopolitan's Positivity Index.

  • Named in the 2022 Diva Power List, celebrating trailblazing queer women and non-binary folks in the public eye. 

  • Nominated for the Sexual Health Awards, International Women’s Podcast Awards, and the Sexual Freedom Awards.

  • I’ve spoken at TedXLondon, Women of the World Festival, and on BBC Woman's Hour, to name a few.