writing
articles • sex ed: a guide for adults
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‘Don't do it just before going to sleep’: how to have better sex
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Porn has the power to warp our sexual expectations, but it also taught me a lot about myself
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Polyamory may not be for everyone, but it’s what works for me and my partners
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We Need More Transparency To Inform Young People That Porn Is An Industry And A Fantasy
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The Ins and Outs of Consent - A digital zine in response to and in praise of Michaela Coel’s I May Destroy You.
Sex Ed:
A Guide for Adults
My debut book was published in 2020 by Bloomsbury. It was an Amazon Bestseller, and I feel incredibly proud of this book baby.
Sex Ed is a no-holds-barred, inclusive roadmap that covers everything from how the brain is the most important sex organ, to communicating what you want to yourself and partners, all the way down to the glorious messy stuff - solo sex, orgasms, blow jobs, squirting, anal play, toys - the lot!
It’s a pleasure-focused guide, bringing together everything I’ve learnt through my work in the sexual health and sex positivity worlds. My hope is for you to finish this book feeling celebrated for who you are, proud of what your body is capable of, and curious to expand your sexual horizons.
Illustrations by the wonderful Sofie Birkin - who brought the book to life in a soft and cheeky, yet very sexy, way.
readers say
“Ruby’s depth of experience shines through from start to finish and it’s clear no stone has been left unturned. She’s committed to giving you all the tools needed to think about your own relationship with sex and an understanding of how you can take your sex life to the next level.”
Sophie Griffiths for Diva Magazine
“Sex Ed made me feel accepted and loved and just that sex is something normal, something fun to discuss and think about, and that my desires are valid. I love that it didn't just focus on partnered sex, but the sex you have with yourself and all the expectations and ideas that surround sex.”
“Sex Ed answers [questions] in a gentle, creative, instructive and indisputably sexy way”
Vic Parsons for Pink News
“This book really helped me in understanding myself as a sexual being, how to navigate through my identity, and my views on sex as a romantic person, and feeling validated in my journey and identity.”
“Ugh I love this book! I wanna marry it! It's pink, it's shiny, it's nice to hold, it's sweet and full of positivity and so beautiful! I just love it 🧚🏽♀️ And also it has great advice!”
“I genuinely think anyone can take something positive or learn something new from this book regardless of their background, beliefs, sexuality, etc. I wish I had read sooner!”
